Rest in Peace, Mr. Q

This news of Abraham Quintanilla’s death hit me very hard today. I’ve cried so much over this man. It’s hard to explain why.

Like many fans, I was critical of how he handled Selena’s affairs and legacy. But what I understand now — perhaps because I’ve experienced more than one sudden, tragic loss myself — is that he was simply trying to hold onto his daughter a little longer. 

The love he had for her allowed the rest of us to know her and for that I am grateful. 

Rest in peace, Mr. Q.